Slow Justice in a Banana Republic
Forgive me everyone; for intruding into your peaceful space with this tale of woe and misery. It's the second day of the Lunar New Year which is the biggest and most important holiday of the year for many cultures around the world. People all around are wishing others peace and prosperity. Me? I'm hoping a number of people go straight to hell.
This morning I've gotten word that one of my aunts in Vietnam (my mom's only little sister) was brutally beaten on Wednesday. Occuring the day before the Lunar New Year, the local police have refused to do anything about the case until after the three day holiday, leaving the perpetrators to run free causing my little cousins to fear for their lives during what should be the happiest time of year for them.
According to my mom who got the phone call this morning from one of my little sisters who is currently in Vietnam preparing for her wedding there; my aunt's husband and his older brother had a heated argument over land. This argument had nothing to do with my aunt (who is one of the sweetest ladies you'd ever meet), she wasn't even there. However, her husband's older brother's wife (her SIL if you will) decided to get involved by going to my aunt's business and berate her. Suddenly, the woman attacked my aunt (who of course fought back and defended herself). Customers pitched in and helped stop the fight and my aunt, being a busy lady, just let it go. This was, after all a family matter and apparantly everyone knew her SIL was mean.
This was a mistake as later the SIL brought her four grown (college educated but stil thuggish) kids to the back of my aunt's business. The SIL posted two of them at the door and cornered my aunt and my little 14 year old cousin in their back store room. There, the SIL had her kids, my cousins' cousins, beat my aunt to a bloodly pulp with a hard hat of some sort in front of her daughter. My cousin was able to somehow get out of the door and ran for help but was persued by one of HER OWN COUSINS. She finally got to a safe place and was able to get some relatives to come help and said relatives called the police and ambulance.
As mentioned, the police did a cursive search but let the matter drop until the end of the New Year's holiday. My aunt is currently in the hospital with wounds so serious that my little sister upon seeing her immediately fainted. According to my mom from my sister's information relay, there is probably brain damage and perhaps even paralysis. My cousins are living in fear and have not been able to stop shaking.
We here in the US are trying to figure out what we can do to help. We haven't let my grandma know yet as we're afraid she might worry but for those of us who do know, we're all both outraged and resigned to the fact that justice in Vietnam is not swift and many times completely blind. I'm worried that this will be put aside as a family dispute and no one will be punished. When you are beaten so badly that you end up in the hospital, you can't just "let it go". I don't care where you are, assault is generally illegal even if the perpetrators are family. My mom's siblings have all gathered by my aunt along with her husband (who is curiously absent from this account isn't he?) My youngest sister (a lawyer) is going to be heading to Vietnam to engage one of her Vietnamese lawyer acquaintences to build a case against these people and to get the police to actually get off their asses and do their jobs. My mom will most likely follow soon. The only thing that I can do from here, is help support my mom and sister by looking up information on emergency travel and legal recourses prior to their trips.
We are going to do everything in our power to make sure my aunt gets some justice. I haven't spent much time in Vietnam but when I am there, she has always been kind and gracious. She's one of those people you hear about who are almost saintly in their kindness and gentility and when you meet them, you find out that it's true. I have a lot of relatives in Vietnam, but the thought that this has happened to HER has caused a flood of emotions from outrage to sadness to hope. I hope that she is ok and will recover. I hope that she that the emotional damage from this is not lasting. I hope I can help.
Back to normal programming with responses in the next post.
13 comments:
Ah shit. I try not to swear on other people's blogs but what the fuck. I thought my dad's family treated my mom like crap. THIS is unacceptable - and I am so saddened that something like this even had to happen. I am so sorry. I hope that the injuries turn out to be temporary and not permanent... I'm speechless with indignation right now, can't say more than a few cusswords... I'm sorry that I'm incredibly inarticulate right now but I'm pissed.
I do hope you are able to catch them - and make sure that they do not further terrorize your cousins. Wishing your aunt FULL recovery...
MN, let me just tell you it took a lot of effort to write that post without a stream of curse words. This has been such a horrible thing that I'm just stuck in my tracks and I have zero ability to concentrate on work. My poor aunt and cousins.
Oh Hong Lien, this is terrible. I find this appalling, and difficult to believe. Her sister in law? How could she? Hope your aunt makes a speedy recovery, and that your aunt's SIL gets what she deserves.
O.M.G! WTF is wrong with people???? Seriously!
I wish you all the luck and I hope your family can get good help for your aunt.
My thoughts are with your aunt too.
My mom had probate issues after my grandpa died in Korea. He left her and her siblings land. Suddenly my uncle didn't love my mom and aunt and said he deserved 100%. It didn't get physical, but what my mom did was employ a International attorney. Seems like your sister is doing the right things. Vietnam might not have the same political/legal climate; but legal action speaks loudly. I hope things turn out.
Sorry you have to fume over this. Seems like loving people are mobilizing behind your aunt.
More power to her!
Alice
I am appalled that family members could do this to each other. Your aunt is lucky to have your family research, fly over there, and take care of her. What kind of person mobilizes their kids to &*^% someone up? That's so wrong. I hope your aunt heals soon and I'm so sorry that this happened to her.
That woman has to be so heartless to beat someone up in front of her kid. I just hope your aunt recovers soon and the people behind this are punished in some way for what they did. Let us know at some point how she gets on.
Oh my God this is disgusting! I'm so sorry, for your aunt and her kids and you and your family... This is truly despicable. I'm just flabbergasted that anyone could do this at all -- let alone to a family member! I'm so sorry. I hope your aunt recovers and she and your family get the justice you deserve for this horrific crime. Your poor cousins...
Hugs to your family right now. I'm just... appalled. :( Please keep us updated.
I am so truly sorry that this has happened, I feel so awful for your aunt and all of you, her family who have to deal with the aftermath, trauma and feelings of helplessness, anger, sadness. I am sending good thoughts and prayers that your aunt's health improves quickly and significantly. I hope there will be justice, thank God your family is so organized and willing to help, I wish them good luck.
This is horrible - I am so sorry that your aunt (and family) had to experience something this frightening. Please keep us posted; I'll be thinking of you all over this holiday weekend.
Oh, how awful. It's unbelievable that her own SIL and nephews would hurt her that way. I hope that she recovers from her injuries, and the perpetrators go to jail. I'm glad your mother and sister are going over there to help.
It must be so hard to be far away. I know you want to help somehow, but feel powerless.
you and your family must feel so helpless because you're so far away. i can't believe that such a horrible thing happened to your aunt, let alone from someone who was supposed to be family. that's so messed up.
Oh my god. I hope your aunt gets better and that your sister is able to get the authorities moving.
Wow.
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